The Man In The Mirror: Looking Inward
Have you ever been in a relational conflict with someone and you felt like it was all their fault? I have, and so have many others if we’re being honest with ourselves.
When we make the decision to be true to self, we can begin the hard work of recognizing the things we tend to ignore about areas of our lives that need work. Many times, it is easy to point the finger and attempt to remove the plank out of our brother or sister’s eye when really we need to remove the plank out of our own eye. When situations like this occur, be sure not to look outward to blame or transfer responsibility for the outcome of the circumstances. Intentionally search your own heart to see how you contributed to the conflict. When you find yourself in this place, take time to:
- Look at yourself to identify what you did to contribute to the problem.
- Ask yourself why you made the choices you did.
- Take responsibility for your part in the problem.
- Forgive yourself and the other person.
- Should you find yourself stuck send me an email or give me a call. (lolita@navigatingtheheart.com or 214-457-7946
Blessings,
Coach Lo
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